Astrology in Relationship

Relationship for love,romance and relationship with age difference!

It is very interesting to note that many times people develop a relationship with either people much older than they are or with people much younger than they are. This applies to individuals of either sex. Though this kind of relationship is not very common, we do find such relationships in our society.

The question is what drives such alliances?
In some poor families where the poor parents almost sell their young daughters for material gains in the guise of a relationship. That is purely exploitation. In some other cases it could be exploitation by muscle power. In other cases it is purely by mutual attraction and consent.

I would like to exclude such cases driven by exploitation and focus on relationships developed between two mature individuals with mutual consent for the current scope of study. Most likely, in such cases, the decisions are likely to be emotionally driven than anything else.
 
Moon influences UL or UL lord:
Moon should play an important role here. Also, such people break the norms of the society, go ahead and demonstrate that they are different.
 

Rahu influences UL or UL lord or Moon:
One could imagine the influence of Rahu in such situations.I also wanted to look for the combinations for love marriage showing up as these relationships are usually developed between them rather than arranged.

Saturn influences UL or UL lord:
Another key player would be Saturn. Saturn is the planet that represents aging.

Care should be taken to observe the common practices in that society, I mean consider desha, kaala and patra. For example, 50-60 years ago, it was a matter of practice in many societies in India to have huge age difference between the couple; husbands were generally much older than their wives. Even my father is 10 years older than my mother. They got married during the year 1960. Such a case is not an anomaly in their society at that time and hence does not fall in the special category under study.

While studying horoscopes of some individuals who had relationship with either much younger or much older than their age, initially I tried to focus on 7H / 7L and navamsha etc. But, I failed to notice any clear pattern emerging. Later, I started looking at Upapada Lagna (UL). It is then I started seeing a pattern. I have put down the details of this pattern below.

I have observed the following combinations in charts for developing a relationship with people either much younger or much older than themselves.Combinations for Love Marriage/Relationship: 7th lord having a relationship with 3rd house/Lord or 5th house/lord.Such a relationship develops during MD/AD of Rahu, Moon, Saturn or the UL lord.

Majority of these combinations can be traced in charts of people having developed such relationships. I couldn’t really differentiate between the charts of people who marry much younger people as against charts of people who marry much older people. Hence, one could say that people with these combinations don’t seem to care about the age of the partner. It could be a very insignificant factor to them. They might be thinking “After all Gold is Gold, don’t care if it is old or new”! However, I can present one clue - If Saturn has the strongest influence on the UL, the native develops a relationship with people who are much older. Where as when Moon has the strongest influence on the UL, it can go either way. Probably, the clue to this is from a Shloka in Phaladeepika of Mantreshwara - Chater 2, shloka 8. Here Mantreshwara describes Moon to be both old as well as young.

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